Yesterday afternoon, I shot a backyard barbecue at a small horse ranch in Canutillo, just outside El Paso. I’m not often hired to shoot informal family events like this one, but I’m always happy to help out where I can. The owner of the ranch was recently diagnosed with brain cancer and has refused treatment. He’s spending time with his friends and family across the country.
Anyway, as I watched the family interact, I spent a lot of time admiring this man and his attitude. Even in this rough and uncertain time, he was upbeat and positive. He joked and laughed with his siblings and cousins. He ran the grill and made sure that everyone had plenty to eat and more than enough to drink.
I thought about all the time I spent stressing out about the smallest things. I thought about all the time I waste away from my family and friends. And I’ve determined to do my best to live my life with the same joy and attitude that he has in these hard times.
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